I had 3 consecutive serious bf. I count 2 of them as one individual, bc they were very remarkably similar, and it messes with my face blindness to try and apply names without distinguishing feature. The plummet from the best to the rest, popped my ears. Last one was over a decade ago. Give it up for citalopram, then bupoprion.
I am not homosexual, there's majorrrr trauma surrounding the female anatomy. I wish I were homo bc I imagine lifelong partnership and teamwork with a woman has to be easier than with a man. I mangle good relationships bc I am ego and face blind. I mean why does anyone want a wife? BC she's the best friend ever, clutch embodied.
I'm not exactly cis hetero. I am cis hetero on the inside, but on the outside I feel like a cis het fem stuck in a butch non binary lady body. When I gain weight it's in the Cushing's vein, and I could be Lou Ferrigno's stunt double. The idea of being a dominatrix makes my skin crawl and you will be immediately ghosted bc you're a freak. [P]Leather on skin? Kill me. Hyperhidrosis nightmare.
No, it's my neuroses. My body was masterfully deformed by design, when you touch it you make it real and I dissociate. I'm asexual. Demi when I'm off of antidepressants, but who isn't demi then? I'm completely comfortable being asexual.
My family finds this insane. Like, according to my elders, it is my fault bc it's a part of wifely duties? I am not learned on these duties, are they a social construct? I don't do the dishes due to sensory issues, come on, be realistic. Anyways, as a result of my ignorance, I'm a 40yo spinster with dried jujube for lady parts, and am certifiable bc I refuse to consider divorced dads. LT relationship ended bc I was frigid? I mean what was I supposed to do, have sex when I don't want to? I would never have sex with an individual who does not want to have sex, yick yick yick.
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Many Koreans-Americans are living in 1970. Efficient and widespread language translation were not available until 2008-2016 and "Obama Phone" brought the price of smartphone data down for every carrier by 80%. I had my first live interpreted conversation with my birth mother in 2021.
I can't say if Trump took us back to the olden days. The 45th stands still in time, and all of my elders love that, Boomer values remind them of the homeland, in my case their teens and twenties. Boomer ideals are attractive to individuals who'd completed middle and highschool with war refugees parents (June 25, 1950 – July 27, 1953).
I don't live at home bc my family doesn't want to explain ever
Why I'm not allowed at weddings, funerals, graduations, family vacay
I'm not allowed bc I don't exist, bc I'm not married, obviously intellectually disabled, and probably insane. Stepmother's called me a witch before I could walk. Like pointy hat, broom kind of witch. I truly believed my green complexion was a matter of time. "Hocus Pocus I" was hugely validating. Sabrina and Salem Saberhagen relieved me of green skin and hairy moles. I do dialogue animals. "Crucible"=🤯😲😎
Maybe I could have been taught to work for the family business, manage my own finances, travel alone, build my own community - but individuals our mother's age in 2024 are not allowed to use hammers or bring their own luggage in lest they want to ruin their husband's reputation and legacy. I don't mind carrying my own bags bc I get to drive and have my own line of credit. My very proper former marine stepdad says, "told you so, we should have [sent her away] when she was 18!" Stepmother's husband proves it, if it not for dad, I would have been thrown away to perish in a state hospital 40 years ago, in 1984. Use the link below to get an understanding of conditions in 1984.
*The break up to.spinsterhood happened 5-10 years ago. It takes me a decade to sort and process life events bc I don't notice they're life events at the time, and/or "life events" at all.
